A box on a high shelf....*

Soul baring moment....
Sometimes it's hard to look at the people of your past... ones that you thought were so amazing, ones that you invested so much in and thought would be in your life until you were old and gray. You thought you'd be friends forever, that nothing could ever tear you apart.... and suddenly, they are so far away. Broken promises, crushed commitments, different priorities... and you realize how far you've grown apart. You no longer care about the same things, and no matter how much you try and invite them to things, take an interest in their life, show them that their friendship is still important to you... they never call, they never text, and seem to not even know that you are still there... caring from afar. Birthdays are forgotten, memories fade, friendship disintegrates.

What to do?

Put them in a shoebox with kindness and care, place them on a shelf in your heart. Always able to look back with fondness and be grateful for the times they were there, and the moments you spent with them in your life. Then take a deep breath, close the closet door, and give the space to those that want to be there. Give the love and attention to those that make an effort to be with you in your life, those that want to share your moments of joy, help you in your moments of need, and be your friend in all definitions of the word. Instead of giving your love and energy to those that are no longer present in your life, break their commitments, and always seem to be somewhere else, give to those who would love to be given that kindness and attention, who would love your friendship and treat it with respect and warmth.

Life is so short. Spend it with those who value your contribution in their life, who will push you forward to greatness, keep their word, and expect the same from you. Those that you can give yourself to, who will value you as you value them. The people in our lives are what make living so special.... let the ones go with love who no longer contribute and keep the ones who make it sparkle. You deserve it. Live with intensity, give your all, and surround yourself with those who do the same. Your life will instantly be enriched, and you will feel free.*

I do not need the government to force me into being kind, just, charitable, and selfless... I can do that all on my own. I need a government to give me protection, justice, freedom, and opportunity. I must admit, I'm so sick of people thinking that the government should take the place of being a good and successful person, and that everyone deserves the best. The best is earned... Worked for... Chased after. And being a good person with morals comes with experience and a drive for self improvement. You cannot give any of that to someone, no matter how many leg ups you give them... They have to want it for themselves. So instead of constantly looking for a way to make everyone equal and make sure everyone has their fair share, let's be a nation that encourages greatness and supports those who strive for advancement... Let's lead by example and offer opportunity to be better instead of asking for things we aren't willing to work for ourselves with an entitled attitude. Take personal responsibility and work for what you want... It is more charitable when you give away what you have worked for not what has been taken from you in the name of "leveling the playing field".

"Ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country..."*